In Memory of Bill Kennedy

Feb 26, 1934 - June 18, 1993

"It was not like having a Probation Officer, but a friend'"

A very typical PO office!!

--Barry Neufeld, with Darlene Kennedy, Martin Hole, Vickie Green, Ann Alexander & Gordon Birrell

Bill Kennedy prepared early in life to be a Roman Catholic priest. He began Junior Seminary at age 15 and was ordained in Nanaimo on 11-Jul-64. In 1968, he was a priest in Gold River BC and succeeded in establishing an ecumenical Anglican/Catholic Church. However, like many priests in the '60's he became disillusioned with the authoritarianism of the Roman Catholic Church. He fell in love with Darlene, who was at that time preparing to be a nun. He left the priesthood and they were married 24-Jun-1972. Darlene said that some of his friends did not treat Bill very well for leaving the priesthood. In Darlene's opinion, Bill made his decision to be a priest too early. His mom had died and his dad was a liberal.

In the fall 1970 Bill enrolled in the youth probation course at the Training Centre in Marpole. He was hired in 1973 and began work at Main & Hastings in Vancouver. In 1974 he transferred to the Family Court Richmond. The Kennedy's took in a foster son Peter in 1973. Peter is now 44 years old. Then Bill and Darlene began to have their own family. Elliot was born in 1974. Matthew was born a year later. Nathan was born in 1977.

In 1977 Bill went to take his masters degree at Western Washington University in Bellingham. He came back to work in Surrey. He graduated from WWU, and received his Master of Education in counseling degree in July 1978. In 1979, he went back to Richmond Probation. Bill encouraged his wife, Darlene to go back to Simon Fraser University to obtain her degree as a teacher.

Darlene stated:

"Bill enjoyed being a family court counselor. He preferred working with the challenge of mediation. He would be sorry to see how it has gone by the wayside. Bill believed that Family Court Counselors were doing a far greater service to the general population by dealing with custody and access without lawyers. I remember the time he had a case involving access. The father was supposed to drop off the kids at the ferry terminal in Tsawassen. But there was a concern that the father would leave the kids. So Bill wore a disguise and went to the ferry terminal to see what happened. But the guy never showed up. Later the man said that he was there but the mother never showed up! Bill never talked about names. But I remember the talk in Surrey about car thieves. He had this kid, and it didn't matter what they did: they tried everything but the kid kept stealing cars. Bill liked his work. We had a neighbor whose husband left her with two teenage sons. Bill talked to her and assured her that the two boys would come around. Bill was always actively involved in the community: always looking for ways to make things better."

Gordon Birrell, Bill's Local Director, at Richmond Probation and Family Court Services wrote:

"Bill Kennedy had a strong sense of justice, doing the right thing, of caring for both colleagues and clients, and he lived what he believed. These qualities cast Bill into various roles, champion of the underdog, a burr under the saddle of the system, a competent Family Court Counselor who would go beyond the call for his clients, a dedicated Youth Worker who invested many hours working with young people. Bill did not believe there were any bad kids. He was an excellent trainer who delighted in passing knowledge, a sometimes irritant at staff meetings, when he would not let go of an issue until it had been fully canvassed. I recall that over one issue, Bill arrived unannounced at my home, at 8 p.m., albeit with a bottle of wine, to continue the discussion. He was a good friend and valued colleague.

Eccentric, you say? Yes, he was eccentric, he was complex, he was human, in all of the connotations of that word. A quality which I sometimes fear we are losing in our need for standards and guidelines."

Bill Kennedy was involved, interested and intrigued with life; he did not go gentle into the goodnight but railed, railed against the passing of the light.

As one of his young probationers put it, 'it was not like having a Probation Officer, but a friend'.

Vicki Green worked with Bill in Vancouver. She stated: "I know it sounds tacky, but it is true: Bill was motivated by Love: it was evident in everything that he did".

Bill had a case where the children lived in Richmond and their father lived on Vancouver Island. No one was able to drive the children to catch the ferry, so Bill agreed to do it on his flex day (regular day off). He left early in the morning of June 18, 1993 to pick up the children so they could catch the 9 o'clock ferry.

He hadn't picked up the children yet when he came to the intersection of Shell Road and Alderbridge way in Richmond at about 7 AM. A young man was heading east on Alderbridge: The light changed, but the young man "gunned it". He was going too fast in a truck with bad brakes and a heavy load of carpet. He was following a friend, and he was late for an apprenticeship exam that he had to take. He hit Bill broadside, and Bill was killed instantly.

Darlene didn't find out about it until later in the morning, about 10:30 AM. She asked what time the accident happened. The policeman wasn't sure, he thought about 9 AM. By then Bill was supposed to have picked up the children and been on the ferry. Darlene asked: "what happened to the kids?" The policeman said: "What kids?" He left Darlene to worry about that one. She wanted to tell her sons, Matt and Nathan who were in school. But the policeman insisted that she come with him to identify Bill's body. Another police car drove up to the boys' school school, called the boys out of their classes, and then drove them home in the back of the police car. This started a rumor in the neighborhood that the Kennedy boys were in trouble. Later when Matt was having trouble in school, a teacher told Darlene "I don't think he likes me!" Darlene asked: "Didn't you know that his father was killed?" No one had told the teacher.

The funeral was at St. Mary's Catholic Roman Church in Vancouver. Darlene recalls a strange young woman at Bill's funeral, who went forward, patting the casket, as if she was a dear friend of Bill. But it turns out that the woman was a well-known freeloader who made the rounds of funerals to eat lots of free food.

The young man who killed Bill was charged and placed on bail awaiting trial. Meanwhile, Bills' son Matt was having a very difficult time getting over his father's sudden death. He was very close to his father. Darlene said the boys would not talk about it. In September of 1994, Darlene was invited to Ottawa for a ceremony honoring Bill Kennedy. Rob Watts, Director of the Corrections Branch, escorted her. But more tragedy was about to happen.

After the ceremony, Darlene returned to her hotel room, and was visited by the Ottawa-Carleton Police. They had terrible news: that her son Matthew had died. They gave her the cell phone number of the Vancouver Coroner, who happened to be Larry Campbell, now mayor of Vancouver. On Sept 25, 1994, Matthew had gone to a Eurythmics concert at the Roxy. He had refused alcohol, because he said he was driving. But he was already planning to die. The next day, a kid on the way to school found Matthew Kennedy hanging from a tree in a public park. Matt was only 19.

Darlene attended the trial of person who hit Bill in February of 1995, after he husband and son had died. The young man was a bit arrogant. A witness had seen the light change to red, but the truck ran the red light. Crown wanted jail.

But Darlene asked "Why? There were no drugs or alcohol involved: he was just in a hurry... Bill and Matthew had died already. The judge was praising me for being so open-minded and not demanding a jail sentence. The young man turned to me at Court and I said: 'Take care of your family: mine's been destroyed!'"

The probation officer writing the PSR called Elliot for a victim impact statement. Bill had told his sons about Okalla prison. Just before it was demolished, people were given the opportunity to see what it was like to spend a night there. Bill had experienced that and he said, "you'll never want to be there. All you could hear was metal doors clanging all night." Elliot told the probation officer that Bill would never have wanted the man to go to jail. So the man got one day in jail, a fine and 2 years driving suspension.

A year later, Darlene "shut down" physically. Her blood pressure was exceedingly high and she underwent surgery for cancer in Nov 95 and Jan 96. But she managed to get down to Los Cabos California with her sons and some friends over the holiday season in 1995 where she earned the title "margarita mom!" She now lives alone in a townhouse with two large yellow Labrador retrievers. She said: "I got a dog for warm sloppy kisses!"

On Sept. 26, 2004 Darlene Kennedy attended the Peace officer's memorial in Victoria accompanied by PO's Martin Hole, Darlene Jamieson and Barry Neufeld and a military police warrant officer Kirk James. Unfortunately, when the cairn was unveiled, they had neglected to include Bill Kennedy's name. The organizers of the event apologized profusely and promised that the name of Bill Kennedy, the only British Columbia Probation Officer to die in the line of duty would be added as soon as possible.

Ann Alexander, now a manager with the PLEA organization stated:

"When I trained as a PO I did a practicum at Richmond probation.....I took on Bill's caseload as he was on a leave to train Family Court Counselors on the Island. We're talking 1980. He mentored me, and of course changed me forever. When he died, Darlene Kennedy asked that donations in lieu of flowers were to go to the Dare Program. We were totally surprised and extremely honored. Bill would have been upset if the money didn't go directly to the kids, so that is where we put it."

*****

Always the clown!

 

This article also appeared in the BCPOA Jan 05 News http://www.vcn.bc.ca/bcpoa/BCPOANewsJan05.pdf

 

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